Sketch/concept thing for the Grand Adventures of Poolala game and/or comic i’m going to start on soon~
holy shit zine of the month club is happening!!! Check out NRMLC's tumblr for more info on that soon~~~
what kind of comic should i make??? aaa so many options~~~
I’m usually happy to answer questions like this as long as they’re polite and respectful!
Me and Josh are from the same hometown and have known each other for years, and been dating for about a year. Sloan has known us for less time but we’re still close friends who have sex /cuddle/talk about sex openly, etc. That doesn’t mean it won’t become something romantic, but nobody is trying to force it.
We are all still very open to having side relationships and casual sex, we just make sure to keep it safe and talk to each other before and after hookups or whatever~ in any relationship, open communication is key! That is especially true for poly. If you discuss things, even “”hard”” problems like jealousy, feeling left out, etc, everyone can work together to make things okay. Don’t hide yr feelings cause NO ONE is a mind-reader!
Me and Josh live together, so by default we spend more time together. However, we all make an effort to hang out as a group as often as possible! We sometimes do things as pairs, sometimes as three. We never try to force anything…sometimes coordinating three people’s busy schedules can be tough! When we are able to sleep together, that’s the best…I love being right in the middle~~
Poly relationships are highly varied, but for us we’re all on equal footing and we all date one another, and we’re very happy together! Poly isn’t for everyone, but for me it’s really great! I love having two partners.
There are lots of blogs and info about poly stuff! Searching poly on google or in tumblr tags is a great way to start~ Here are a few of the things that helped me learn more about poly~
list of poly blogs (you can always find more in the poly tag!)
Another shorter but equally cute post abt poly, good for if you’re curious about larger/more “complicated” poly webs/constellations
10 Questions Poly People are Sick of (i’m not actually bothered by a lot of these, except that obviously they are worded rudely…but this article does have some good info)
10 Questions This Poly Person is Happy to Answer, the flipside of that first article and more great info!
I hope you got something useful out of this, feel free to talk to me more if you still have questions or I didn’t cover something~~~
sadisticsydney asked: Your gender identity and sexuality are expressed in similar ways to mine and now I have a rad way of explaining it to my family! Thank you so much ;u;
omg!! wow thank you! I’m super glad my comic is something you can relate to and use to explain to family~~ I made it to answer a question someone asked me about being queer but then it kind of turned into a comic to help me explain to my mom what the term “queer” means for me. I’m so so happy that other people can use it for the same thing!
Even though this is a comic about my own experiences with queerness, terms, and gender expression/identity, I hope this can help other people who are still trying to figure out their own identities~
But keep in mind i did make this about myself and not everything i talk about here is going to be right or true for all people! Things are different for everyone!
OMG wow thank you so much everyone for the birthday notes and all the gifts. Even super tiny stuff like donuts and doodles means SO MUCH to me, like so so so much, and all day I’ve felt super cared about and happy. Thanks all of you for making my birthday so awesome~
oh no what if i drew josh as a little bun all the time
full-time-homo asked: We share a birthday! *o* i know i like you ;9
Also omg you are cute! Here is some cake~
it yr bday~
i did not write a number on the hat because i was afraid of being wrong
(this is my friend joe it is also his birthday today)
it my bday~
Creepy Cute is my senior project at the Minneapolis College of Art and Design. The collection was inspired by the cycle of life and death, the duality between subversive and sweet, and the pastel goth trend.
The collection is comprised of 6 patterns that come in 3 different color-ways. The patterns were applied to fabric, and then I designed dresses and neckties using this fabric. For this collection, I have won the Spoonflower Emerging Designer Grant.
The collection is on display at MCAD through December 13th. View the look book or purchase items from the collection here.
Please check out this clothing line or attend the show if you can! My friend Heather made all this herself, the patterns, dresses, everything! I was one of the models and that dress was one of the best outfits I have ever worn. I’m super excited about this and I hope you will be, too~~~~
Today I went to a Mexican bakery and Sloan bought me a bunch of cakes and treats for my birthday which isn’t til tomorrow! aaaaa they are so good~
Still working on my comic, and here’s a little part of it I thought looked good on its own~ female, male, both, and neither*
Feel free to use it on yr blog or whatever, it’s transparent so yeah~
*OF COURSE this is not a representation of every gender/person, gender is a spectrum and there are a lot of other identities and in-betweens, so please don’t attack or lecture me over this tiny doodle, okay?
A commission I just finished for Josh!
(the preview is pretty grainy, zoom in for the full experience)
SHAY omg omg this is amazing! Thank you so much!!! Everyone, please go check out Shay’s commissions cause she is super talented and deserves yr money~~~